It’s Our Story to Tell

by Beth Ann (Thomas) Vann, ’98

Times certainly changed, thank goodness for that! What happened in the 43 years since women joined Annapolis in 1976 is simply remarkable and yet, not anywhere near where it should be all at the same time. This fact inspired seven members of the class of 1998 nearly one year ago to ask each other and, thanks to overwhelming support, so many other graduates from the United States Naval Academy questions about how WE got here and how WE best continue to make a difference in the Fleet in and out of uniform. We teamed up with the Women’s SIG as WE also challenge each other to create, navigate, and support the journey for impacting our communities given the lessons and opportunities thrust upon us, gifted to us, and the networks WE cultivated in the fleet, on the Yard, an in our time beyond uniformed service.

It’s no secret that SOMB focuses on the Sisterhood in great part because some feel we neglected that bond for part of our lives in order to fit into the Brotherhood. We did not realize at the time that both could and should exist and are NOT mutually exclusive. What we continue to discover on this journey with and for you is that we CAN and ARE making a difference by telling our stories. You know the stories you never told for fear that “they” would judge you for good or bad. Often, the hardest part of this journey is the self-awareness that “they” are empowered by our own fear, isolation, and silence. Most importantly we highlight that our journeys are more similar than not in both challenges and victories. WE are stronger together bonded in common purpose and valuing all the diversity WE bring to the table. While times are different and, in many ways, better, our herstory is powerful and holds insight for the how, why, when, and what next to ensure the future grows exponentially for not just the Sisterhood but for all who she (WE) influences. Graduates of the Naval Academy, the Sisterhood of Mother B is here for you – Our site includes articles and a podcast!! WE want to tell your story because it is part of our story.

Want to write an article/blog post, we’ll help!!

How about submit a Waypoint? Waypoints – Take a “fix” – a photo that represents your current waypoint or a significant one on your path.

How about recall something fun, funny, serious, or maddening about the past? Throw Back Thursdays – Do you have a memory or a picture that’s fun, thought provoking, or both? Send it to us and be featured as part of TBT!!

Share your story – about your time at USNA, or how USNA has affected your life, for better or worse. Tell us your challenges and how you overcame. Share your bonds of Sisterhood. Share the story of the mid who grew up to become your spouse.

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  1. Hello!
    My name is Nicole Terwey and I am a Lieutenant in the Navy Reserves. I attended USNA and graduated in 2009 (23rd Company). I left active duty to launch a career in helping military women (specifically) lose weight permanently.
    I am a Life Coach, Weight Coach, and Fitness Coach and I coach women one-on-one with the mental strategy to losing weight for the final time.
    I would love to provide a blog about what I do and what some of the tools are that I teach my clients. I know there are many other Academy women out there who struggle with their weight and who want true transformation, not more motivation. Below is a bio I’ve sent to news agencies and authors, like We Are The Mighty and Stew Smith Fitness. If there is something I could provide to help with the SOMB, please let me know and I would be happy to make it.
    I look forward to hearing from you!

    Nicole Terwey is a Lieutenant and an Intelligence Officer in the U.S. Navy Reserves in Nashville, TN. She completed nearly 10 years of active duty service in the Electronic Warfare community and earned her master’s degree in Organizational Leadership before building the next chapter of her life as a certified Life Coach, Weight Coach, and Fitness Coach.

    Nicole specializes in helping military women lose weight confidently and permanently, especially if they are struggling with losing weight and keeping the weight off after being on multiple diets. Her personal struggles with years of weight loss and weight regain at the Naval Academy and her time in Active Duty led her to find the true solution for permanent weight loss, which is the cognitive component, or the mental strategy.

    Combined with her knowledge, experience, training, and coaching skills, she now works with women in the Navy, Marine Corps, Army, Air Force, and Coast Guard who are either in Active Duty, the Reserves, or the National Guard who want to lose weight once and for all.

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